Step 1: What’s weighing on you most?

Relationships“Why do I keep choosing people who leave?”Work and money“Should I leave my job, or am I just exhausted?”A restless mind“Why can’t my mind slow down, even at night?”Heavy feelings“Why does this heaviness keep coming back?”Family“Why does every conversation with my mother end in an argument?”A loss“Why can’t I move forward since I lost them?”

How long has it been on your mind?

If it were answered, what would change for you?

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Your question

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